My ilo, I Love Orgasms.
We are ilo, empowering you to explore your sexuality. We believe that by designing modern & environmentally conscious sex essentials we can inspire conversation & celebration surrounding self pleasure.
We love orgasms, do you?
Balm Lube & Massage candle
NEW LOOK same ingredients
My ilo's Balm Lube and Melt Massage Candle are our most popular body products. They now come in a sleek amber glass jar.
Balm Lube is first of its kind- a unique oil-based lubricant. The unscented whipped lube melts with touch creating a long-lasting, silky lubricant. Balm lube is perfect for those wanting a deliciously hydrating lube that requires no cleaning after, simply massage it into the skin!

"My ilo offers what I would deem some of the most beautifully designed sex toys that reach out to women and takes the tacky, taboo and stress away and puts the pleasure and connection back in. A revolutionary and modern adult shop." Anna
"Thank you My ilo for developing awesome, innovative vibrators! And I’m not sure if this is too much detail, but I want to give feedback. Even with only the vibrations, I experienced my first all body orgasm! Didn’t even know that was possible or a thing! I was so surprised. So thank you and your amazing team for this new age sex store!" K
"Hi team, thank you for creating such an inclusive community and platform. I was recommended your products via a friend and I have loved the whole process of buying my first ever sex toy. This is not what I expected an adult store or sex shop to be like, it reminds me of a beauty store and I love it!" Maddie
"My ilo is the best sex shop in Aus! I friggin love it. All their vibrators are so powerful, designed for both internal and external pleasure, and there are so many patterns. I barely made it through the functions before climaxing. These adult toys literally blow my mind, and being the greedy type I felt I had to thoroughly test it and it gave me jelly legs." Eva
"Thank you ilo for creating a product that allows people with skin conditions and sensitive skin to explore items like this- the Melt Massage candle unscented! Sticking to your mission of being inclusive of all, it is great to see this being made a reality! THANKYOU. This sex lubricant is ace!" Elle
"I purchased this ilo online vibrator as a gift to my partner, and it was a huge hit! The vibrators design makes the device welcoming and approachable, especially best for first time users. It is also super simple to use and we loved the multiple vibration patterns and it being waterproof. This is the best couples vibrator on the market." Jack